It is very embarrassing to say, so I appreciate the anonymous interface. Occasionally I have no orgasm when ejaculating. I am in average too good general health, in a long term committed relationship with two kids, have a stable job where I feel I am valued. But this particular part of me is broken

I see that your message is dated, so I hope you have had the chance to meet someone who could help you in the meantime. If not, here is my response.
First of all, I’m glad to hear that you appreciate how this platform ensures the confidentiality of your identity, sexologists also place great importance on that aspect.
Feeling shame is quite common when facing new or challenging sexual situations. I believe a sexologist would be the right professional to help you explore and work through these feelings of shame.
May I ask what you mean by “occasionally”? Without knowing the frequency of these events, it’s difficult to provide a cle...ar answer. It’s also important to note that it’s normal to experience moments when orgasm does not occur. For example, if this happens rarely (depending on the frequency you mentioned), it might simply be due to fatigue or other temporary factors.
If you feel that your situation hasn’t improved, I would encourage you to consult a sexologist. In the meantime, I hope you continue to treat yourself with kindness. Read more

Hi, it's something you can talk to a sexologist. I feel comfortable in English to have a consultation with you as you wish. have a nice weekend